What’s up boys. In this exclusive post I am going to list 8 biggest turn offs for women that turn off them like a light switch. Are you guilty of these? Let’s Find Out!
Boys, this website make sure your grooming game is strong, your style is on-point, and your etiquette is in-check. However, there could be some things slipping through the seductive crack and turning her off like a light.
Well, today we are just going to address that.
So Let’s Get Started
Here Are The 8 Quickest Turn Offs For Women
Insecurity is the most unsexy thing and the biggest turnoff according to like 96 women that I actually asked for this exclusive post.
Are you one of those guys who is constantly saying “do you still like me? Do you think I’m good looking , you know you can tell me if you don’t, Did you just check out another dude, you think he’s hotter than me don’t you????” If your answer is yes then bro you need to stop right now, like seriously!
Constantly needing validation is one of the quickest turn offs not just for girls it is a turnoff for dudes! However, having a confidence is just as sexy as it can be 😎.
2. When You Are A Dirty Little Boy
Don’t be that guy who has a filthy looking car, filthy kitchen, filthy bedroom, filthy bathroom. You just don’t know about the time when your girl decides to come over your house or just expecting from you to drop her off in your car. So, you should always be prepare for it.
Now, keeping our surroundings clean is just not for a girl but should be for ourselves also. Please note you don’t need the nicest car, the nicest apartment, the nicest furniture, you just need to keep the stuff you have clean.
3. Trash Talk About Your EX
If you are doing this thing then you really should be reconsidering about it.
I know when dude logic, we should talk about our ex and really trash her so that our new person is like oh he has no desire wanting her anymore right? Absolutely Wrong! Because in her mind she will think, what if she dates you and in future there happens to be a breakup then you will talk trash about her also to other girls. Which is making her not to date you and turning her off straight up.
Throw dude logic out the window and say something simple like she’s a great girl, we just weren’t great together, that’s all you need 😉.
4. Being rude
Imagine, you are out hanging with your girl and you both go to a sweet restaurant, you order something that she likes everything is going fine but suddenly under some circumstances you decided to get rude with the service agent or the cashier or anyone which is offering something to you.
You see a drastic change of expression and vibe in your girl. Now, you wonder what went wrong. What you did is, you just sent a subliminal message to the girl’s mind that you are a DICK!
It is a humongous dating red flag. However, being respectful to everyone is a sign of matured and a true gentleman😊.
5. Wearing Trashy Shoes
The first ever thing a girl see when meeting a dude is his shoe, so try to don’t wear a dirty, dorky or funky shoe.
My rule of thumb -> Whenever in doubt, wear a minimalist looking shoe like white or black . They just look great with almost everything.
This is the point most dudes are constantly doing and then they complain about not having a girlfriend! You need to understand being too clingy is too cringy, learn to give some personal space to her rather than just texting her at the other second of the day.
Even you are not doing that (which is great by the way), but if you are thinking about her 24X7 then bro you should have a life. If you are into her more than she’s into you then you have a problem.
Ok, Just imagine yourself, if someone constantly message or call you every other minute or hour then you would be frustrated don’t you?
Don’t forget she’s also a human and have human like properties😂. So, try to not get too clingy and give her some space.
7. Personal Hygiene
Well this area is under control for majority of the dudes, but there are few that could potentially have long dirty unkempt finger nail which is nasty. Hair falling through the nose, through the ears, that’s just not gonna work.
Bro, you should seriously be taking care of your personal hygiene. You gotta trim your nails make sure they are not unkempt, Make sure you don’t have a bad breath, girls should not be moving away when you talk to them rather they should not be letting you go away, coz your mouth smells fantastic, Your Body Odour also plays important role, shower daily and apply deodorant accordingly.
8. Being A Bad Conversationalist
If she’s talking with you, and you are just looking at your phone, looking around, looking at your watch, checking out other people, then brother it a no – go, she’s gonna turnoff superfast.
What you are doing, you are just not paying attention to her; guys, listening requires not only your ears but also your eyes and your entire body, you can easily tell when somebody is engaged in actually listening to you, you can also tell when somebody could care less about what you’re saying and if you are not paying attention, then bro you are just turning off the switch,
Another thing, you constantly interrupts her, this no good either all right. Let her finish her thought then you can speak.
And that’s it 8 simple common sense things that we as dudes should be doing but sometimes kind of fall through the cracks but hopefully now that you know that these things should have to be done.
Boys!!! Let’s continue to kick ass and be amazing😎.